Serious Schlog users how would you get a girlfriend?

[Retarded_FAG]

Schlog users how would you get a girlfriend?

 

[Fortuna]

I don't really strive to have one plus most foids don't really like the same stuff I do and I think there wouldn't be much to talk about, especially since it's kinda difficult for me to hold conversations with people.

Maybe if you stopped saying foid that might help.

 

[Blackweed]

In real life? By circumstance. Now that I am no longer in school, we are no longer friends because we were just friends because we met everyday. We weren't friends in the real sense of the word that we had common interests and that we had a true bond. It was just convenient.

I'm perfectly happy, I'm just being realistic.

I get what you're saying. It used to be that the opposite sexes met each other in a community. Ideally, you grow up in a tight-knit social circle, meet a girl through said social circle if she wasn't already part of it, and you date her with the assurance that you have shared values because she's from the same local community. Your chances drop significantly (there's a study on this with an exact number but I couldn't remember) past childhood if you don't have that social circle.

My parents lucked out, they met at a party when they were like 18 and married young, so they keep telling me to just "go out more" and ask out the first stranger I see thinking it'll work for me like it did for them. Funny thing is, their old friends from school, I could say half of them are now either in a dysfunctional marriage, divorced, or decided to stay single forever. I don't know how my parents look at how bad their OWN generation is then still cling to their individualist mindset.

That said, blackpilling yourself is the worst way to go about this. Even if you have zero chances (which you don't), you're doing a disservice to yourself to close all remaining doors. Hold on to hope. Nihilism is the real cope here.

 

[greg]

Maybe if you stopped saying foid that might help.

I just call them foids because it's funny. In reality, I have nothing against women, geg. Also I don't care about having a girlfriend.

 

[FartmingerFuckwadCheeseSte]

No, it's impossible. If you haven't found one in school, then your only choices are work (not a huge variety of choices), dating apps (terrible), and a third place (men's third places often don't have women). Just give up if you haven't by then.

Although not the most modest thing to do, engaging in your local Church and meeting people and women through Church activities is a possibility?...

Also relationships that happen in school tend to break apart quite easily, and people go their separate ways to meet new people, it's actually kinda rare to find "High School sweethearts" of any generation after the Baby Boomer generation.

 

[Fortuna]

Funny thing is, their old friends from school, I could say half of them are now either in a dysfunctional marriage, divorced

Gee, I wonder why.

That said, blackpilling yourself is the worst way to go about this. Even if you have zero chances (which you don't), you're doing a disservice to yourself to close all remaining doors. Hold on to hope. Nihilism is the real cope here.

I'm not being nihilistic at all. I have an optimistic outlook on life. It just doesn't involve a relationship for me at all and I'll just be happy on my own. Lots of people are doing this. I'm just saying if you didn't meet someone in school, give up. It's over.

 

[Fortuna]

Although not the most modest thing to do, engaging in your local Church and meeting people and women through Church activities is a possibility?...

I don't go to Church and they're mostly dominated by young men anyway.

it's actually kinda rare to find "High School sweethearts" of any generation after the Baby Boomer generation.

Right, that's why I'm saying it's pointless.

 

[ArBcswqnxNobgkdgULRxknEtLw]

I'm not being nihilistic at all. I have an optimistic outlook on life. It just doesn't involve a relationship for me at all and I'll just be happy on my own. Lots of people are doing this. I'm just saying if you didn't meet someone in school, give up. It's over.

Why are you being so pessimistic over this specific factor? Apparently if you don't meet your loved one in school you'll never find true love, ever? That logic just doesn't click with me. There are a lot of people who meet their future husbands/wives at workplaces (or any other place associated with adult activities). For example, my grandparents. They met at the same university, working different jobs, yet they still managed to recognize the fact they were meant for each other - their relationship has being going for +30 years and there has not been a single case of abuse. I don't get why you say this.

 

[FartmingerFuckwadCheeseSte]

Your chances drop significantly (there's a study on this with an exact number but I couldn't remember) past childhood if you don't have that social circle.

 

[Fortuna]

They met at the same university

So... at some type of education institution. Like a school?

Apparently if you don't meet your loved one in school you'll never find true love, ever?

Right. You have 14 years at school roughly, and that's usually with the same people. You will never spend so much time around people care free again.

 

[FartmingerFuckwadCheeseSte]

Right, that's why I'm saying it's pointless.

Yes, but you didn't read the latter half of what I said. Even if they didn't meet their sweetheart in High School, there was still an open door to meet their partner later on through other social opportunites.

 

[ArBcswqnxNobgkdgULRxknEtLw]

Right. You have 14 years at school roughly, and that's usually with the same people. You will never spend so much time around people care free again.

School isn't exactly care free, and work usually takes up a much bigger factor of your time (and life, most people work for +50 years after finishing university). You will spend more time seeing that specific woman in your workplace than that girl you liked in school

 

[Fortuna]

Yes, but you didn't read the latter half of what I said. Even if they didn't meet their sweetheart in High School, there was still an open door to meet their partner later on through other social opportunites.

But they're not the same quality. You'll never really get to know them that much. There's nothing quite like school where you really really get to know a person inside out. You could literally spend your entire childhood with someone; you WOULD be compatible because your personalities would have been molded by each other. Doesn't exist outside of school, so you should give up.

 

[Fortuna]

most people work for +50 years after finishing university

Most people don't work at the same workplace for years and spend 50 years chatting.

You will spend more time seeing that specific woman in your workplace than that girl you liked in school

No you won't.

 

[ArBcswqnxNobgkdgULRxknEtLw]

Most people don't work at the same workplace for years and spend 50 years chatting.

No you won't.

1 hour per day is a lot of time to get to know your coworkers. (you also get some downtime inbetween)

 

[FartmingerFuckwadCheeseSte]

But they're not the same quality. You'll never really get to know them that much. There's nothing quite like school where you really really get to know a person inside out. You could literally spend your entire childhood with someone; you WOULD be compatible because your personalities would have been molded by each other. Doesn't exist outside of school, so you should give up.

I feel like you're saying this partly because your social life as a whole may have ended after you graduated. You did mention that you stay inside a lot.

 

[Goot]

Be specific
The legal or illegal way?

 

[Fortuna]

I feel like you're saying this partly because your social life as a whole may have ended after you graduated. You did mention that you stay inside a lot.

And it will for most people here. You guys have no idea how much I wish that I was back in school. Savor it while it lasts. That's the worst part of being an adult.

1 hour per day is a lot of time to get to know your coworkers. (you also get some downtime inbetween)

Compared to 8 hours a day 5 days a week? And then you get summer vacation to hang out with them?

 

[FartmingerFuckwadCheeseSte]

And it will for most people here. You guys have no idea how much I wish that I was back in school. Savor it while it lasts. That's the worst part of being an adult.

Compared to 8 hours a day 5 days a week? And then you get summer vacation to hang out with them?

I know this place where people go to play sports and shit and I use that as a way to socialize with people in the evening, you'll see people of various ages, either college aged to middle aged coming there to play and have fun. You just gotta know where the fun is, mang

 

[Fortuna]

I know this place where people go to play sports and shit and I use that as a way to socialize with people in the evening, you'll see people of various ages, either college aged to middle aged coming there to play and have fun. You just gotta know where the fun is, mang

If you want a middle aged girlfriend I guess that works for you. But the innocence is gone.

 

[FartmingerFuckwadCheeseSte]

If you want a middle aged girlfriend I guess that works for you. But the innocence is gone.

Dense motherfucker. I said college aged to middle aged.