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Schlog users how would you get a girlfriend?
See, your problem is that you're blackpilled and a pessimist. I don't think it's entirely a realist perspective and I don't think you would've had a better time say, 20 years ago with this same mindset, even if it were an easier time to wife up a good lady.In real life? By circumstance. Now that I am no longer in school, we are no longer friends because we were just friends because we met everyday. We weren't friends in the real sense of the word that we had common interests and that we had a true bond. It was just convenient.
I'm perfectly happy, I'm just being realistic.
The world is a dark place. Maybe my words are grim but they're certainly true.Wow, how grim of you to say that
I wouldn't have this "mindset" because it wouldn't be true like 20-40 years ago.See, your problem is that you're blackpilled and a pessimist. I don't think it's entirely a realist perspective and I don't think you would've had a better time say, 20 years ago with this same mindset, even if it were an easier time to wife up a good lady.
I'd most likely get an arranged marriage against my will, though. I want to know my wife as I don't want my wife (of whom will be by my side for the rest of our lives) to be uninterested in me and have no chemistry in between us.Most likely give her flowers, go on a date and compliment her. I don't like annoying women IRL as much as I look like I do.
If you've given up that's fine, but don't pull others down with you.The world is a dark place. Maybe my words are grim but they're certainly true.
I wouldn't have this "mindset" because it wouldn't be true like 20-40 years ago.
I'm not pulling down anyone with me. I'm just saying it's pointless to try. Even if you do manage to find someone today they'd be totally incompatible and it'd just end up going wrong. They wouldn't be the right person for you.If you've given up that's fine, but don't pull others down with you.
Well if this mentality didn't exist 20 years ago why should it now? I understand it's harder because of dating apps, the prevalence or focus of artificial/superfical beauty to the point of photoshopping themselves to look like adoniuses and the death of what others like to call "third spaces" (malls and what not).The world is a dark place. Maybe my words are grim but they're certainly true.
I wouldn't have this "mindset" because it wouldn't be true like 20-40 years ago.
Right, and I can frame that in a negative way by saying "let's say half of all women are democrats, that means half of all women are terrible for you. That means your effective dating pool is cut in half and you're fighting at a 2:1 male-to-female ratio."Take something that sounds really bad and look at it from a positive perspective. Like blueballed women signing up for the "4B" movement after Kamala lost the election. Instead of thinking "wow this really narrows my chances of finding a dateable woman" think of it from the perspective of "wow this really improves my chances of finding a woman to love, because I know she will be of quality" because those people who are signing up for "4B" are not the ones you should be dating in the first place.
Well then try looking for women within your community who are more similar to your inherent values, if you're a conservative or traditonalist or just a republican or whatever you consider yourself, also realize that there will be compromise on both ends, you won't find the ideal woman you're seeking but you'll find somebody who you'll learn to love flaws and all, because unconditional love matters more. vice versa for her.Right, and I can frame that in a negative way by saying "let's say half of all women are democrats, that means half of all women are terrible for you. That means your effective dating pool is cut in half and you're fighting at a 2:1 male-to-female ratio."
Right but the ideal woman for you is probably already dating the non-ideal man for her. So you may as well not even bother. It's just simple economics. Nobody is going to leave $20 on the floor.Well then try looking for women within your community who are more similar to your inherent values, if you're a conservative or traditonalist or just a republican or whatever you consider yourself, also realize that there will be compromise on both ends, you won't find the ideal woman you're seeking but you'll find somebody who you'll learn to love flaws and all, because unconditional love matters more. vice versa for her.
Women are either slightly under 50% to 50.5% of the population as of 2024. That is a sea of woman.Right but the ideal woman for you is probably already dating the non-ideal man for her. So you may as well not even bother. It's just simple economics. Nobody is going to leave $20 on the floor.
whyUhhh, don't see myself ever having one, kek
No, it's impossible. If you haven't found one in school, then your only choices are work (not a huge variety of choices), dating apps (terrible), and a third place (men's third places often don't have women). Just give up if you haven't by then.Women are either slightly under 50% to 50.5% of the population as of 2024. That is a sea of woman.
There are numerous compatible partners that exist out there, I don't know if true love exists or if 'the one' exists, but finding somebody who you are extremely compatible with and want to love with all your heart is most certainly possible.
I don't really strive to have one plus most foids don't really like the same stuff I do and I think there wouldn't be much to talk about, especially since it's kinda difficult for me to hold conversations with people.