I mean i kinda get where they are comming from on the male sides of thing. I was genuinly shocked by how immature and perverted some of my college classmates act. For example there is this incredible good looking tall twink (no homo) all he does is follow girls all day and doing shit like playing in their hair and being overtly touchy. At first i thought it was fuckboy privilege but the girls often punch him and they say oh no here he comes when he enters a room.