Annoying. Frustrating. Headache-inducing.
Back in my day, for something like this, say Skype or Teamspeak or Crossfire or Steam, it would go as follows: "Hey bro, can I add you?" one man would say, "Sure, do you also like to play XYZ?" etc, etc. But nobody wants to do this. Everyone INSISTS on having these great big Discord servers with every single person imaginable, it is not for a project, or for a particular game you and they people you have met on the Internet. It is simply not used for any sort of socialization or perhaps anything like that. Maybe because I am older I have a more traditional mindset about these things, but this is how it used to be.
I was a bit disappointed to see people who made the excellent gems that even I myself have posted. It instead always devolves into this drama and gossip mindset like women with nothing better to do. Nothing productive, nothing useful, no original content, just drama and gossip. Perhaps it is an age thing, or the generally younger user base here, I have seen some great talent, but the talent is very strong and very much outweighs the others. I do not know, that is what I have to say about the situation.