I came home after visiting my close friends for the easter weekend and my parents want me dead. I have had several incidents where they have threatened to kick me out and disown me, my mother's father said that he would break my arms and legs if I went to their house. Mom also said she would deliberately not buy any groceries for me and said that i would have to use my own money to buy food, but i have not been able to get a job and i've tried everything, with no luck. I want to escape, I do not know what to do to save myself and I need help and advice.
i'd find a friends house you can couch surf at in the meanwhile while job hunting, if you have one of those that'll let you do that. if not, you may want to start looking into homeless shelters or just straight up buy a tent because its extremely likely you'll get kicked out anyway for whatever reason they feel like. either way, HOLY FUCK get out of that house ASAP your parents are blatantly abusive.
if you're feeling diabolical, bait them into beating you, but don't allow them to beat you within permanent injury or death(!), just enough to create visible serious wounds that cant by any stretch of the word be contrived as self-harm by any liars in your family. then show the injuries to the police (assuming those are competent in your area, your mileage may vary) your parents will then be arrested for child abuse if you're under 18, if you're above 18 you can hit them with aggravated battery and assault charges. either way, they're going to prison, yooooooiiiiiiinks maybe you shouldn't have done something thats a fucking
felony out of selfish impulse. or something.
as for the jobs, honestly i'd just scrounge up enough for the most budgeted one-way flight you can find to a non-anglosphere country and leave the entire fucking collapsing empire tbh. american job market is horrifying actually doom-spelling for gen z especially since we're in a literal fucking legal definition of a recession (we were already in one, but now the government can no longer lie about it how bad its getting, tbh im bracing for great-depression conditions at this point)
you'd unironically make more net money shoveling snow as a faux-churka in rural russia than you would working one of those "5 years experience entry level positions for slightly above minimum wage except you're still not hired to even those poison pill positions after a year" positions where im at. you also get the additional bonus of being 5000 miles and across an ocean from your parents, so it would be prohibitive at best for them to "visit" you among other things for petty reasons.
its not easy, but this is what i plan for myself. i live in fear i may not even survive long enough to see this plan.
