If i am gonna be honest, reading this thread I can somewhat relate, im sure some people can
In our case being a girl isnt just being all feminine, but we can also have masculine interests and have that side be part of our identity. Splitting your different identities does help assesing the situation, but sometimes gives you pooner dilemma or very much DID symptoms. my old ‘cord friends that im glad i dropped would try to convince me of that because i am interested in masculine things I MUST be a tranny.
Aldoebeit trannies and troonactivists claim to be fighting against inherently classifying interests and personality traits as; feminine or masculine, are woking against their own ideals.
Trust me, i have many times questioned if i was a pooner and i am so glad that I have throughly assessed the situation for myself, and looked at other people that decided to identify differently;
I have realised that things cannot be black and white, men cant be all masculine and women cant be all feminine, sometimes i see pooners who are trapped in their need to be validated „masculine individuals“, they cannot like anything remotely feminine, thus starting to hate femininity as a whole. This gives them constant identity crises.
If i were to split my identity into masculine and feminine i would also get 2 completely different identities, who would fall under stereotypes, and i bet they would still not be happy living how they are, having crises like the pooner crisis i mentioned above.
Before we are men or women, we most importantly are human, we are people all in all and if you look deeper into it femininity and masculinity in interests dont have to be stopping you. I assume because you were raised thinking that because you are a girl, liking boy things is completely taboo for you, you now have this itch for „masculine things“ and your male side (if you can call it that geg) still isnt the complete epitome of masculinity as far as i understand.
In my opinion, every person has traits or interests „that belong to either gender“. Labels and societal expectations make you think this is not normal, so you try and find a label or a fix for this. You are just a girl though, but that doesnt man you must be a certain way and there is no right or wrong way to being a girl if you were born as one. I could go on about this for hours honestly I could write an entire essay about how absurd gendered things are, how unhealthy it is to raise ‚nonbinary children‘, and how embracing your own gender and finding what way of life works for you is the best way to combat this.
