If you would treat your (hypothetical or real) partner/spouse the same way you treat yourself, would it be considered an abusive relationship?

[AR47]

Apparently it's not possible to make polls on /qa/.

 

[encrusting_acro]

Make it so you can see who voted for what

 

[Plajer Sojdżekowski]

A question too complex for me to comprehend

 

[istanbul]

I have never done self harm nor have I ever contemplated the idea so I wouldn't beat myself up if my wife was me.
So, no.
Not sure if I understood the question correctly doe.

 

[ILoveVesna]

hopefully