I do want to have a lot of kids, but the question of how to raise them is indeed a bit hazy to me
I guess I'd have to start with creating a stable household with my wife before having the first, preferably quickly so I dont do the millennial thing and complain about muh finances!!! as an excuse to put it off
I'd want my wife to take care of the kids as much as possible; I had a stay at home mom in a generation where it has become less common and it was great so I'd do that. I'd also want to play with my kids as much as possible and show them how to act, as my dad did that and it was fun. I'd also need to utilize my extended family for advice and other kids for mine to play with. I hope my siblings and cousins eventually start having kids as well by then, but maybe I could be the first.
I want to be a lawyer but law school adds an extra three years to college time, which is annoying because I would like to raise my kids while I'm still young, the younger the better. I dont have many solutions for this, but I believe that engaging with my community and family more could help. Youth centers, church stuff, playdates with my kids' friends, anything to broaden their experiences while also freeing up time for the wife and I.
Another big problem is how I raise my kids to think. I dont believe I could brainwash them or anything, but at the very least I need them to reject contemporary Progressivism, hold true to my family's Catholic faith, be loyal to our country(America) rather our barren motherland(Mexico), and maybe even tolerate soyjaks. My current strategy is to inundate them with imagery while they're babies, and provide them with rational explanations as they grow older, with periods of pulling away the things I want them to like to gauge their reaction. I am afraid, however, of potential for rebellion as I am distinctly more pro-American and right wing than the rest of my family so I know it's possible. A child that grows up to be a tranny, a race mixer, a commie, or a convert to another religion would be very distressing towards me and the family so it's important that ideological consistency be established. I will need to develop my argumentative skills and understanding of the humanities to be able to defend my ideas from those that will inevitably come from outside, while also remaining free of fallacies or emotional manipulation. I want my children to see me as a wise man and a role model, so I need to be able to defend my ideas while also retaining high standards for myself. I must be a reincarnation of the 50s father, able to sustain and teach his kids about life while also loving his wife, keeping their home stable, and maintaining strict personal ideals. This would probably be very stressful, plus I haven't even touched upon the ideological wild card known as the wife, but I'm not one to back down from a challenge. Plus, unlike the 50s, I have soyjaks, so I doubt I would always remain stressed.
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In terms of the internet, phones, and their access to information, I would not be overly restrictive. I've seen many in my generation go knee-jerk in restricting phones from their kids until a much older age, which I see as impractical and isolating. The world is only bound to get more interconnected and more information is bound to be exponentially created, so I would rather not drop off a phone to a 13 year old who has never made a search in their lives. Rather, I would want to browse the internet alongside my kids from a young age, teaching them how to act and what can be done with the web. I'd probably have to pull up some kids sites and maybe some flash games to keep them interested, but I want them to know the full breadth of the net early. My kids will not be willfully ignorant of the world beyond what the big social medias will push; I shall teach them about forums, the meanings of the icons, acronyms, file types, softwares, and hardwares. They will know what a web browser is, the difference between a monitor and pc, words like clearnet and anonymous, how to stay private, and maybe I'll dip into the realms of Linux and privacy schizophrenia with them. I will use internet resources to show them material based on history, the humanities, math, and whatnot, just like how I learned in my day. I need to cultivate the information side of their view of the internet. They will know how to search Google Scholar and JSTOR while their contemporaries struggle with writing an email. Of course I will get them library cards and physical books, but teaching them how to download literature on their own seems good too. I might drip feed them soyjaks and other oldNIGGER stuff as well, but not too much or they'll get repulsed by the vulgar parts of the cultures. When I was a boy I remember researching old dead normie memes like rage comics and Chuck Norris so I could learn how internet culture shifted early on; I will expand and refine that process to ensure my kids understand why the web is what it is, where it came from, but I'd also discourage them from using old dead cringe in modern times. By the time they're teens, my kids will not only be familiar with the internet, but will know its many cracks and enclaves of both depravity to avoid and knowledge to be learned.
I could very much stand to expand and develop my views of parenthood in the future, especially to respond to the challenge of the future. I hope this wall of text serves you well in your own development in your ideas of parenthood, and I absolutely hope any patterns I've established here aren't later connected to my actual identity.
