You are retarded, let me tell you why.
What is the point of men existing in the first place? Why is it that most living beings, plants included, have male and female parts rather than having just females making kids? This is answered by the fact that the sole purpose, as I believe it, of men existing is that it facilitates natural selection. Having one sex that gives birth, and one that has to compete to get mates lets the species gain beneficial mutations over time faster than just having members that give birth. Since males have to compete to procreate, the weaker ones will not reproduce, and thus poor genes get weeded out. The sole role of men from a biological perspective is to weed out poor genes and make good genes be passed on more. This is so beneficial in fact that nearly every species of the animal kingdom has designated male and female counterparts. Having half the population not even giving birth/laying eggs and only serving to facilitating better natural selection is worth it.
In short, because you are a man you are not owed anything and you are not equal to women and have to prove your worth. Just because society tells you that you are equal to women and that you have an easier time does not make it true. Your sole purpose, biologically speaking, is to prove that you are good enough that your genes should be passed on rather than someone else's.
For this reason you have to get off of your ass and make yourself better, you have to prove you are good enough to have kids. Women don't need to prove anything since they are the ones to give birth.