Coal faggot here ama

[Twostripe]

i just assume that all females are "above" me i guess
the only girl that ever liked me was a fucking pooner (irl)
maybe alcohol will help eventually

There are a lot of bitches in the world, but the "all x are y" mindset is not the healthiest to live by. Maybe it's the thing that stops you from having a good relationship

 

[NT]

It is all lust.
What you simply need is luck, go for girls that you find interesting to talk with. That you have similar interests with perhaps, i dunno.

the thing that i dont understand is how men and women can still get along and love each other despite being opposites. in my mind that shouldnt work out.
like as an example take jeremy clarkson from top gear, his life is focused on cars (well it used to be but still) and there's nothing feminine about him at all. yet he still has 3 kids despite being an old angry man
i dont understand the "dynamo" that makes opposites attract maybe its my autism
in my mind i saw men as being more relatable, but there's more to it than that which i am now realizing

 

[NT]

There are a lot of bitches in the world, but the "all x are y" mindset is not the healthiest to live by. Maybe it's the thing that stops you from having a good relationship

true and i have trouble understanding that women are varied and well "diverse" too
there's more weak and feminine men than there is tough and masculine women
so i just assumed theyre all the same

 

[NT]

and this all may just be a result of me isolating myself and not being grounded in reality
ive noticed that when im out doing stuff im more normal and well-adjusted

 

[Twostripe]

looks matter

ur not bad looking

You said this

 

[Xiuhcoyotl]

You said this

i meant that in general

 

[Twostripe]

i meant that in general

I general they do, but If nt is actually not ugly then it should't be a concern for him

 

[NT]

You said this

normal people often judge the appearances of others (even if theyre the same gender) a lot
theres nothing gay about it, i think you can tell that edp445 is a fat ugly fuck
women talk shit about other women too

 

[Mist]

the thing that i dont understand is how men and women can still get along and love each other despite being opposites. in my mind that shouldnt work out.
like as an example take jeremy clarkson from top gear, his life is focused on cars (well it used to be but still) and there's nothing feminine about him at all. yet he still has 3 kids despite being an old angry man
i dont understand the "dynamo" that makes opposites attract maybe its my autism
in my mind i saw men as being more relatable, but there's more to it than that which i am now realizing

The relationship side of things when it comes to men and women works, not always perfect, but... You realise that it truly is just "natural" when you are in a good relationship, how nice it feels when the gender roles work together, when the two genders even if they think and act differently support one another, the feelings when a girl hugs and loves you, it almost feels motherly. And the feelings of wanting to care for this woman, to protect her, to provide, nothing can replace this.
Yes, men are relatable but as FRIENDS. But a girl, a girl truly is something one cannot replace. And you will realise it if you have a good relationship like this with a woman. The opposites work perfectly.

true and i have trouble understanding that women are varied and well "diverse" too
there's more weak and feminine men than there is tough and masculine women
so i just assumed theyre all the same

YES women are diverse. I know many feel like copy and paste hoes and that's normal. But in the hordes of le heckin NORMIES there is always someone special. Someone that works.

 

[NT]

well should i post my full face to get feedback
its from a year ago but its a professional-ish photo

 

[Xiuhcoyotl]

YES women are diverse. I know many feel like copy and paste hoes and that's normal. But in the hordes of le heckin NORMIES there is always someone special. Someone that works.

albeit rare and almost impossible to find after graduating high school

 

[Xiuhcoyotl]

well should i post my full face to get feedback
its from a year ago but its a professional-ish photo

that's up to you.

 

[Mist]

albeit rare and almost impossible to find after graduating high school

Yeah, you have to act fast. That's the thing. EVERYBODY should want to have a stable relationship early on, but teenagers are teenagers. Many are stupid. Or don't have the guts to ask someone out, or aren't wise and mature enough to have a relationship like this.

 

[Mist]

well should i post my full face to get feedback
its from a year ago but its a professional-ish photo

I'd advise against that. Listen, if you don't look absolutely horrific it isn't over. Go for girls that are on YOUR level of attractiveness.

 

[NT]

The relationship side of things when it comes to men and women works, not always perfect, but... You realise that it truly is just "natural" when you are in a good relationship, how nice it feels when the gender roles work together, when the two genders even if they think and act differently support one another, the feelings when a girl hugs and loves you, it almost feels motherly. And the feelings of wanting to care for this woman, to protect her, to provide, nothing can replace this.
Yes, men are relatable but as FRIENDS. But a girl, a girl truly is something one cannot replace. And you will realise it if you have a good relationship like this with a woman. The opposites work perfectly.

YES women are diverse. I know many feel like copy and paste hoes and that's normal. But in the hordes of le heckin NORMIES there is always someone special. Someone that works.

like yin and yang i guess
i think thats my autism holding me back there, i dont understand social dynamics and sruff
and i should start looking harder, women that id like probably wouldnt be online

 

[Mist]

fine

Spoiler: ugly nigger

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??? You literally look good. Try to go for a modest, formal nice style. I am sure there will be girls who will find you handsome!

 

[Twostripe]

fine

Spoiler: ugly nigger

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Isn't an ugly nigger award

 

[NT]

I'd advise against that. Listen, if you don't look absolutely horrific it isn't over. Go for girls that are on YOUR level of attractiveness.

fair enough, ill delete it in a minute
i dont know how to judge myself

 

[Xiuhcoyotl]

fair enough, ill delete it in a minute
i dont know how to judge myself

OMGHISA

 

[KingCargo]

because why not, i might as well
couple of things to get out of the way:

• i wasnt molested or abused as a child
• im a virgin
• i dont use discord except as a way to talk to irl friends
• yes i am deeply ashamed about it
• i dont have any desire to groom or convert people, i just want to be left alone for the most part
• ive never dated anyone

hopefully this thread will be a learning experience for everyone
dont feel afraid to speak your mind, i am usually somewhat understanding

Things will get better.
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