Datamining Are you an incel/struggle with women?

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Do you struggle with women?

  • Yes, I have never had a girlfriend and have no female friends.

    Votes: 19 32.8%
  • Yes, I have never had a girlfriend but I have female friends.

    Votes: 12 20.7%
  • Yes, I have dated at least once in the past but am currently single.

    Votes: 7 12.1%
  • No, I am in a relationship currently.

    Votes: 3 5.2%
  • No, I am single currently but have had numerous relationships.

    Votes: 3 5.2%
  • No, I constantly fuck whores just as a show of force.

    Votes: 4 6.9%
  • No, I am a woman.

    Votes: 5 8.6%
  • No, I am a homosexual.

    Votes: 5 8.6%

  • Total voters
    58
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I feel like I still struggle with women sometimes (I was getting really nervous to ask my now-girlfriend out when I was first trying to do so), but I am currently in a relationship.
Elaborating on this, I was talking to her in a study hall that we both coincidentally went to at the same time today (this is clearly another blessing of God, to have guided us together like that, unplanned) and we were able to identify during our conversation that I may have a subconscious social anxiousness of making people uncomfortable with anything that I do or say, no matter how minute or insignificant the actual action is. It was a very valuable conversation, as I've been thinking about all of what she said for the whole of today.
Sometimes (mainly in louder areas for some reason), I'll randomly speed up my sentences near their end to get a point across quicker before the person I'm talking to can fully form an emotion of the subject of conversation, presumably to avoid them misunderstanding me halfway through my sentence. It's a strange habit, as I do it even in unimportant conversations, and I even find myself doing it when talking with her even when I know she isn't going to make some assumption halfway through one of my sentences and feel discomforted over that.
She also pointed out (since she sits behind me in the class we're in together) that I seem to always scoot my chair slightly to the right side of my desk whenever I sit down as if I'm inadvertently concerned with accidentally blocking a good view of the board from any people who sit behind me in class, and that she's also the one who more often than not initiates our little hugs when we are greeting or farewelling one another, as if I'm seemingly too apprehensive to always begin them myself.
Some of this stuff is probably more just an attempt at being courteous than an actual issue of social anxiety, but I think the fear of making someone like her at-all uncomfortable (as I don't ever want to make her feel awkward, since I love her) is what partially pressures me into that consistent courtesy. So, I certainly do still struggle socially with people every now and then. It's not necessarily women in particular, but I do feel a bit more pressure when around them in comparison to men.
 
No, I have a problem with people as a whole, which might affect my chances of getting into a relationship with a woman doeover.
 
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