I kneel, online communities need more people like yourself nowadays, people who are capable of distancing themselves from idiotic slap-fights and just having fun.
Everything we see online now is all about winning, becoming the "King of the Hill" of any given community, and it's to be expected, the desire to win is human nature after-all.
It's an absolute shame, that something as simple as stopping and smelling the digital roses of something you enjoy (for example, slowing down and enjoying fan-works of all varieties and contributing to quality conversations) has became a rare occurrence.
The internet really needs to take a leap back and revert itself to the baseline of Usenet and the small labor-of-love fan-sites of yesteryear.