Serious Would you rather find someone who deeply loves you, deeply understands you, or deeply respects you?

[ImSchizophrenicThough]

All I'm doing is asking questions because you seem upset, buddy. No need to take it as a personal attack.

I like arguing, and I thought you disagreed with me.
"No need to take it as a personal attack." "Who hurt you? Actually, though." Kino bait.

 

[istanbul]

I like arguing, and I thought you disagreed with me.

It's not that I am agreeing or disagreeing with you; I just thought your reply was weirdly emotionally charged, and I thought that, surely, some earlier negative life experience must've shaped your current outlook on relationships. I should've chosen my words with more care, since this must be a sensible topic to you. I hope this clears up the misunderstanding

 

[ImSchizophrenicThough]

It's not that I am agreeing or disagreeing with you; I just thought your reply was weirdly emotionally charged, and I thought that, surely, some earlier negative life experience must've shaped your current outlook on relationships. I should've chosen my words with more care, since this must be a sensible topic to you. I hope this clears up the misunderstanding

While I do think we disagree, I thought you were unwilling to engage with the argument, my autistic hyperfixation, and thought I could "get" you to engage anyways.
My initial post was a little too hyperbolic and grandiose, and I don't blame you for thinking I was emotionally invested in the topic, I simply saw shlogga's respond "understanding" and contrarianism is a compulsive obsession for me, because I was told I am a very special boy.

 

[_account]

Respect hands down, the other two are of no value to me.