Discussion What would you do if you had a son in the current year who confessed to you he had tranny feelings?

[Soyteen Liker]

You are raising a boy and for some reason you didn't monitor his access to the internet and he comes up to you at age 13 and says "Dad, I'm a transgender lesbian and would like to be your daughter, not your son." He doesn't have much femininity in him and was a normal-ish boy.

Answer as if you wanted a son even if you don't.

 

[USL]

idk... beat him with a belt? It feels like you are asking, "How do I save a man's life after he has been gored in half by a train". I think the real answer is, "hope you have another son". Once your son is saying he wants to troon out, he is probably a lost cause. Maybe in 15 years after you disown him, he'll come back a broken and pathetic husk of a man admitting he was wrong, but past that there isn't going to be much consolation. You should have raised him right when you had the chance.

 

[Brainstorm]

I’m not sure, I can’t really do anything. It wouldn’t be moral just beating him or sending him to a psychiatrist since it would just reinforce his belief. I guess I can just cut him out of my will.

 

[basil]

idk... beat him with a belt? It feels like you are asking, "How do I save a man's life after he has been gored in half by a train". I think the real answer is, "hope you have another son". Once your son is saying he wants to troon out, he is probably a lost cause. Maybe in 15 years after you disown him, he'll come back a broken and pathetic husk of a man admitting he was wrong, but past that there isn't going to be much consolation. You should have raised him right when you had the chance.

oh, so your immediate resort is violence??

 

[princessparkles]

he’s 13, 13 year olds are influenced easily and want to hop on the “being different” train. instantly, my first reaction would be to ask him why and tell him the ruling on it islamically and tell him it’s impossible for him to be a woman, but gently. then when he’s asleep i check his phone thoroughly, to see how or why he’s being affected. at 13 he doesn’t need a phone other than to call or contact me or his friends so i will enforce a rule for him to be off the internet - and replace his phone with a simple brick burner , qnd monitor access otherwise .
it’s important to do this in a gentle way that doesn’t seem like a punishment - if my son troons out that’s my fault for not raising him better. i will bring him to manlier environments and put more manly figures into his life who will influence him for the better - and hope this helps for therapy. giving the troon thing too much attention would encourage it bc sometimes kids just like doing things you don’t like , so it would be on the lowkey.
but punishment shouldn’t be the answer - because your child told you how they felt and even if it’s nasty and you want to hurt them for it , realise it’s not an original thought and your kid is being influenced and this is a cry for help.

 

[Aedra]

1. A good beating.
2. Take away every bit of technology he has, zero access to the internet.
3. After these two it will be time for a hunting trip or some shit like that. Purpose is to inspire some manliness by teaching him this kind of stuff. Plus it would take his mind off the tranny thing.
4. More beatings if this doesn't work.
5. Beat the shit out of him with a construction metal like my grandfather would do to my dad if all of the above doesn't work.

Honestly the situation feels so alien. Trannies aren't common nor are they discussed in any way where I'm from. I guess if it did happen, the average dad here would respond with even more severe beatings than I would respond with. Really, pain is a good teacher even if it may not be nice for a moment. You westerners should beat your kids some more, they'll turn out better.

 

[princessparkles]

1. A good beating.
2. Take away every bit of technology he has, zero access to the internet.
3. After these two it will be time for a hunting trip or some shit like that. Purpose is to inspire some manliness by teaching him this kind of stuff. Plus it would take his mind off the tranny thing.
4. More beatings if this doesn't work.
5. Beat the shit out of him with a construction metal like my grandfather would do to my dad if all of the above doesn't work.

Honestly the situation feels so alien. Trannies aren't common nor are they discussed in any way where I'm from. I guess if it did happen, the average dad here would respond with even more severe beatings than I would respond with. Really, pain is a good teacher even if it may not be nice for a moment. You westerners should beat your kids some more, they'll turn out better.

pain works if they’ve done something wrong that they knew was wrong - or they hurt someone else in the process.
“hey dad im confused and have been influenced to think such way”
“i will beat you so you turn away from me and to the internet more!!”
(troons out further)
like maybe this would have worked when there wasn’t anyone around to support them in this disgusting movement but now you actually have to protect your kids from these strangers and pushing them away won’t help it

 

[Aedra]

pain works if they’ve done something wrong that they knew was wrong - or they hurt someone else in the process.
“hey dad im confused and have been influenced to think such way”
“i will beat you so you turn away from me and to the internet more!!”
(troons out further)
like maybe this would have worked when there wasn’t anyone around to support them in this disgusting movement but now you actually have to protect your kids from these strangers and pushing them away won’t help it

Except trannies aren't supported by anyone where I live. So it would work. I don't live in the west as you know.

 

[princessparkles]

Except trannies aren't supported by anyone where I live. So it would work. I don't live in the west as you know.

aedra constantly mentioning that you don’t live in the west isn’t doing much for you when you’re on a western website and make western jokes and have the same mindset as a typical western man.. bc gay soy men aren’t the majority. they’re just prevalent on social media.

also, if they didn’t know what trannies we’re how would they become trannies? you’re a smart guy i think , you’d be able to figure out they got that from the internet and therefore it’s a random stranger. influence doesn’t have to be irl anymore sadly

 

[Xiuhcoyotl]

Sacrifice him on an altar.

 

[Aedra]

you’re on a western website and make western jokes and have the same mindset as a typical western man..

Cope Projector 9000.

Also I said I'd take all of his technology away so it wouldn't matter how much he wants to turn towards the internet. He would not have the opportunity.

 

[basil]

Cope Projector 9000.

Also I said I'd take all of his technology away so it wouldn't matter how much he wants to turn towards the internet. He would not have the opportunity.

u sound like an old person rn, u know kids always find a way to re-access technology?

 

[istanbul]

idk... beat him with a belt? It feels like you are asking, "How do I save a man's life after he has been gored in half by a train". I think the real answer is, "hope you have another son". Once your son is saying he wants to troon out, he is probably a lost cause. Maybe in 15 years after you disown him, he'll come back a broken and pathetic husk of a man admitting he was wrong, but past that there isn't going to be much consolation. You should have raised him right when you had the chance.

You say this, but most people have to work to feed their families. That's 8 hours, maybe more depending, that you are away from home. Plus, kids go to school where they're taught all kinds of pozz.
Kids pick up these things as fads, and the mothers, being easily brainwasheable as all women are, reinforce these beliefs and actively encourage the children to go down this path all the way, letting them "be themselves".
What can you do? it's largely outside your control. It has always been. You try to do anything and it's going to be you against the world. Push it too far and the bitch is going to divorce you, take half of what has been your life's work and make the kids hate you forever.

 

[princessparkles]

Cope Projector 9000.

Also I said I'd take all of his technology away so it wouldn't matter how much he wants to turn towards the internet. He would not have the opportunity.

kids are sneaky. he would find a way just like i did

 

[Chairman]

Take away his internet access. For the sake of still allowing him education, I will substitute internet access with a lot of books in which is written information that I judge to be of importance.

 

[Nihilma]

he’s 13, 13 year olds are influenced easily and want to hop on the “being different” train. instantly, my first reaction would be to ask him why and tell him the ruling on it islamically and tell him it’s impossible for him to be a woman, but gently. then when he’s asleep i check his phone thoroughly, to see how or why he’s being affected. at 13 he doesn’t need a phone other than to call or contact me or his friends so i will enforce a rule for him to be off the internet - and replace his phone with a simple brick burner , qnd monitor access otherwise .
it’s important to do this in a gentle way that doesn’t seem like a punishment - if my son troons out that’s my fault for not raising him better. i will bring him to manlier environments and put more manly figures into his life who will influence him for the better - and hope this helps for therapy. giving the troon thing too much attention would encourage it bc sometimes kids just like doing things you don’t like , so it would be on the lowkey.
but punishment shouldn’t be the answer - because your child told you how they felt and even if it’s nasty and you want to hurt them for it , realise it’s not an original thought and your kid is being influenced and this is a cry for help.

To expand on your idea, to understand dysphoria, one has to understand the psychological concept of association.
Basically, throughout one's life, one is brought to make associations between concepts because of xyr experiences. For example, the first experience a child has with a dog will impact heavily the way he sees it in the future, and how he defines the concept "dog" in his mind. If his first experience is "biting and barking", the child will most likely view the dog as being danger and scary. If he associates the dog with playing and cuddles, he'll most likely view the dog as being a great companion.

Same happens with kids and what we call gender roles. If a boy somehow gets a negative experience of what it is to be a man, he can definitely troon out. So the goal would not be to beat the living shit out of the kid because there are many cases of this making the case worse, but instead one should try to make him like masculinity. Forcing it directly might result in opposition, but if you manage to genuinely make him experience pride, joy and the opposite of the negative he experiences in his masculinity, or the positive he experiences in femininity, you'll be able to save him.

 

[Stephen]

Words words words just tell your son how cool guns, explosions, and the gym are and how lame dresses, the old internet, and being niggardly are

 

[Gigafly]

Take him out of public school

sending him to a private school with other repressed fags and trannies wont do anything

 

[Aedra]

So the goal would not be to beat the living shit out of the kid because there are many cases of this making the case worse, but instead one should try to make him like masculinity. Forcing it directly might result in opposition,

He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently.

 

[Soygoy]

honestly i can just imagine myself as a father at some point just not even fucking caring what happens
like oh great my child became a furfaggot tranny big surprise, there's not much hope in this god forsaken world these days