Do you swear when speaking irl

[lysytsya]

Personally I shy away from using slurs when speaking, and just saying "fuck" or something similar makes me blush from embarrassment.

 

[Chimperator]

Personally I shy away from using slurs when speaking, and just saying "fuck" or something similar makes me blush from embarrassment.

AutismGOD I kneel.

 

[lysytsya]

AutismGOD I kneel.

Is it autistic to be like this? I think it's a little abnormal, but then what is the purpose of swearing and slurs in language. I cut my hand and I say "blyat" in that emotional moment, but I can't do it while speaking.

 

[terrycrews]

All too much

 

[Chimperator]

Is it autistic to be like this? I think it's a little abnormal, but then what is the purpose of swearing and slurs in language. I cut my hand and I say "blyat" in that emotional moment, but I can't do it while speaking.

I'm not incel enough to answer this.

 

[SpadesonBrap]

Blushing from embarassment seems autistic tbh

 

[Jimb0]

Nope only on the internet, with really close friends I can say nigger or something like that (I don't say it in public cuz I'm afraid of Tyrone's BBC)

 

[Ree Vannin]

No, only on the internet and only in English

 

[Chimperator]

I say slurs whenever I want because I like having fun and I don't give a fuck.

 

[soysoog]

Personally I shy away from using slurs when speaking, and just saying "fuck" or something similar makes me blush from embarrassment.

I don't swear much. I try not to just cause it is cringy.

 

[baqqrih]

No, I never do in conversation with people. Usually, the people around me find the exclamations I use in conversations funny ("my Lord", "holy smokes", "jeez louise")

 

[Rot]

Sometimes when I get angry, I say "I HATE NIGGERS" over and over again in a squirrel voice, but only if I'm alone or with someone who I know won't care.

 

[istanbul]

>just saying "fuck" or something similar makes me blush from embarrassment.
rapeable

 

[soysoog]

I don't swear much. I try not to just cause it is cringy.

most people irl don't swear much either. it depends alot on who you are with, with friends I swear much more than with my parents.

 

[dataminedandproud]

>saying "fuck" or something similar makes me blush from embarrassment
NUSHLOGCACAS ARE WEAK GEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEG

 

[Fagon]

Yeah. I should probably stop.

 

[Soygoy]

I swear all the time, say retarded, say nigga and nigger, "slurs" aren't real, they don't exist. If you call someone a nigger, what does that mean, that they are black? Isn't that a factually correct statement, or am I wrong in that? What about calling someone a chink or a paki? A paki is a pakistani, a chink is a chinese person. If you correctly use those slurs, you are using them factually correct, it doesn't even matter if you use them incorrectly. They're just words. I don't understand why people are so buck broken over words, it's like getting mad because someone called me British, that's just factually correct.

All british people have manky teeth and drink tea and say "chewsday" and drink bo'ol of water. Stereotypes are just true, why so mad?
We also stab eachother to death, etc. It's all true, are we mad because it is true? Are niggers mad because they commit all the crimes? Why? Doesn't that make you a gangsta o algo?
What's so wrong about being known for liking chicken and watermelon? I like chicken and watermelon too!

 

[blackgirl1488]

yes but it kinda just depends on who im talking to

 

[baqqrih]

I swear all the time, say retarded, say nigga and nigger, "slurs" aren't real, they don't exist. If you call someone a nigger, what does that mean, that they are black? Isn't that a factually correct statement, or am I wrong in that? What about calling someone a chink or a paki? A paki is a pakistani, a chink is a chinese person. If you correctly use those slurs, you are using them factually correct, it doesn't even matter if you use them incorrectly. They're just words. I don't understand why people are so buck broken over words, it's like getting mad because someone called me British, that's just factually correct.

Those words have a hurtful connotation simply because they originate from being used in a negative manner. I can call you a stupid, idiotic, foolish dunderhead, and I can say you lack a good intellect. Which sounds better and which sounds worse? Obviously, the latter sounds a bit nicer. If I call a Black man a thick-lipped coon, even if his lips are rather large, that's still a hurtful thing to say, and he ain't taking it as a compliment, no doubt. Calling you British'd be different from calling someone a nigger, because identifying you with that word, "British", is a neutral term. It isn't negative. Even if things are "just words", think outside of the literal, material sense of them. What are words used for? Meaning! Words have meaning, so therefore, words can have a negative or a positive meaning. To deny this, to say that the negativity of words like insults is simply non-existent, is to deny the purpose of words in conversation, and that is a dishonest view of the world.

 

[Soygoy]

Those words have a hurtful connotation simply because they originate from being used in a negative manner. I can call you a stupid, idiotic, foolish dunderhead, and I can say you lack a good intellect. Which sounds better and which sounds worse? Obviously, the latter sounds a bit nicer. If I call a Black man a thick-lipped coon, even if his lips are rather large, that's still a hurtful thing to say, and he ain't taking it as a compliment, no doubt. Calling you British'd be different from calling someone a nigger, because identifying you with that word, "British", is a neutral term. It isn't negative. Even if things are "just word", think outside of the literal, material sense of them. What are words used for? Meaning! Words have meaning, so therefore, words can have a negative or a positive meaning. To deny this, to say that the negativity of words like insults is simply non-existent, is to deny the purpose of words in conversation, and that is a dishonest view of the world.

The meaning of words can change easily over the course of time. Often more than not, a "hurtful" word can be used without any malice or negative intentions behind them, like calling someone a jap or a paki or a brit or a murican or whatever. Other words like Shitalian aren't even offensive, it's just shit + italian, same with tranny which is trans + granny I think. They're really just dumb words and if you choose to get offended by them then you're kind of stupid. I feel as if people say nigga a lot these days, white, black, hispanic, you name it. Most of the time, it's casual and there is no bad intention behind it. To be a word police is kind of a shitty thing to do, even if you are absolutely certain on the intentions behind the words you use, you have to fallback on a mysterious entity to judge whether what you say is "correct" or not.

Even if what you say is hurtful and you intended on saying it with a harmful connotation, I cease to care, as a message was conveyed in the way it was intended to convey, if your response is to say that you cannot say that then you would be retarded. If a black man is called a nigger, he should not respond with "Nooo you can't say that!" but instead respond with "Yeah and you're a lanky ass white cracker white boy with poor music taste and daddy issues." or just another insult. Treat people how they treat you, an insult matches an insult for example, but if you are more moral, you would not respond to "You are a nigger." with hostility, but instead politely disagree and if they continue, pay no attention to them.

Choosing to be offended is genuinely such a stupid thing to do and I would know because of the community that I am in, where saying "you can't say that!" doesn't apply. Everyone can say anything that they want and you have to get used to it.