I've noticed that over the course of my life, the only way I can get myself to change is by having a really bad experience because of the choices I've made. Motivational speeches have no effect, but watching a video of someone my age getting their stuff destroyed by their angry father or whatever does a lot. Just tonight I watched a whole compilation of those and I ended up doing a lot of chores that I'd usually forget about. Seeing a TV show about young inmates and being in prison works far better than a privileged faggot talking about success.