Discussion BODYCOUNT: Is it important?

[Starbing_Artiste]

Do you prefer women to not have le sex ? Why or why not? Is it fair that having multiple partners is seen as good for men, and bad for women, even doe that makes no mathematical sense? Or somethimg?

Edit: Body count = number of previous sexual partners

 

[ShartistaniPatriot]

what is a body count

 

[Twostripe]

what is a body count

The amount of sexual partners a person had

 

[greg]

I plan on staying celibate.

 

[Twostripe]

why can't I let DOLL decide???

 

[ShartistaniPatriot]

The amount of sexual partners a person had

as long as we both love eachotjer. geraldine elizabeth “liz” carmichael married and divorced 5 separate women and i love her the same.

 

[ShartistaniPatriot]

as long as we both love eachotjer. geraldine elizabeth “liz” carmichael married and divorced 5 separate women and i love her the same.

also she’s dead now so i really don’t have anyone else

 

[Mist]

Do you prefer women to not have le sex ? Why or why not? Is it fair that having multiple partners is seen as good for men, and bad for women, even doe that makes no mathematical sense? Or somethimg?

Edit: Body count = number of previous sexual partners

As a christian i feel like that is not even a question.
Sexual purity, even as not a specifically religious idea is something that everybody should look for, to contain their virginity and purity for only the person they truly wish to marry.
To not whore their bodies to whoever simply wishes to hit it off. It is quite simple, this goes for BOTH men and women. I am not a hypocrite. If you decide to have a relationship with someone that wants to wait and keep the special moment and is not totally eaten by the sin of lust or have a relationship with someone who has already had sex with 30 other people, which one seems like the relationship that will be more stable in the future? Where you can feel safe and not paranoid that you will be like the other 30 people?

Simple.

 

[Ketchup]

Even if you are not a morally upstanding people, STDs still affect you (even more so), so not caring about it doesn't even make sense from the heckin scientifirino doctrine of r/wholesome chungus 100 because its not rational either.

 

[Starbing_Artiste]

As a christian i feel like that is not even a question.
Sexual purity, even as not a specifically religious idea is something that everybody should look for, to contain their virginity and purity for only the person they truly wish to marry.
To not whore their bodies to whoever simply wishes to hit it off. It is quite simple, this goes for BOTH men and women. I am not a hypocrite. If you decide to have a relationship with someone that wants to wait and keep the special moment and is not totally eaten by the sin of lust or have a relationship with someone who has already had sex with 30 other people, which one seems like the relationship that will be more stable in the future? Where you can feel safe and not paranoid that you will be like the other 30 people?

Simple.

Even if you are not a morally upstanding people, STDs still affect you (even more so), so not caring about it doesn't even make sense from the heckin scientifirino doctrine of r/wholesome chungus 100 because its not rational either.

changed my mind award

 

[Gem Control]

I thought body count meant the number of people you killed

 

[sodack]

I wouldn’t date anyone who wasn’t a virgin because I see people who aren’t virgins as lesser human beings automatically

 

[Oot]

I see myself as a truly free man in my late twenties or early thirties. Having stayed away from romance, I expect my future partner to have done the same up until we get with one another. Body count is important to me because as a man who desires a marriage in the future, I know that it is completed with consummation. The unfamiliarity newlyweds have with sex is a unique aspect of their relationship that helps to build intimacy, love, and companionship with one another. Those who did not marry as virgins miss out on that. We can even broaden this topic to relationships in general, a weathered heart remembers better times. People often look back upon prior relationships, comparing their current lover with their ex, creating division. Virgin relationships do not have these problems, that's why they are the most successful.

I don't think this was the right place to ask this question, does anyone even have a differing opinion?

 

[HWABAG]

non virgins are yucky

 

[OdessanBvll]

I plan on staying celibate.

Become a monk

 

[Shush xdh]

How is this even a question? Pornstars all look like disgusting meth heads. Of course body count important. It’s different it’s different from men having lots of sex because men have to actually court women. I also know for a fact women are attracted to men who have lots of sex.

 

[niggerjak]

How is this even a question? Pornstars all look like disgusting meth heads. Of course body count important. It’s different it’s different from men having lots of sex because men have to actually court women. I also know for a fact women are attracted to men who have lots of sex.

meth heads are hot DOEBEIT

 

[sodack]

How is this even a question? Pornstars all look like disgusting meth heads. Of course body count important. It’s different it’s different from men having lots of sex because men have to actually court women. I also know for a fact women are attracted to men who have lots of sex.

Men who sleep around are gross as well. I would never marry a man who wasn't a virgin, and if a man has slept around I would see him as someone with poor impulse control. Why would you want to save the most intimate parts of yourself with someone who couldn't do the same for you? How would the idea that women can’t sleep around but men can even work? If it’s wrong for a woman to sleep around (it is) then it would have to also be wrong for a man to sleep around (it is). In your scenario a man would be at the very least complicit in degrading a woman by having sex with her before marriage, even if it wouldn’t impede on his value. Unless men are having sex which each other, though I assume that isn’t what you’re getting at.

 

[korg]

I wanna have a loving partner and kids in the future

 

[𝗠𝗞𝗖]

I changed my vote from "lower is preferable" to "virgins only" because i realized i needed to start having self-respect regardless of how irritational i may be
I'd rather die alone than be some girl's second choice, and my odds of getting a gf are already astronomically low anyway