Im not his shoes are like baguettes bro hes ginormous
the birth defects thing is half fear mongering. Also i still find men attractive i just dont have feelings for them physically ifykwim - and on top of that i dont know if i want to bring children into this world. It seems selfish
thats devastating, im so glad none of my family took the vaccine except my mother (healthcare professional , had to)
i feel like its also gonna affect them mentally - lack of brain development etc. id hope not though.
the vaccine was released far too early.
oh goodness
maybe if i get over 25 and im done with my dentistry degree and still have no one i might.. cuz 25 is hella old
hopefully im less scared of the idea of a man by then
i mean i also dont want them lowered to an extent
ive been raised with a certain standard of life and to sugar coat it i cant marry someone without money ill go insane
i am also a wretched woman!!! i care ab materials!!!
In islam the womans parents have to give permission because its from a point that they’re basically handing over protection of their daughter to another man, they need to vet the man out
That being said my family requires only a stable man with a stable income, they dont care what race (minus...
yeah maybe its my standards, i cant marry down because of my family. i cant marry a guy whos younger or my age bc those dont have money, so with my family's standards alone he has to be of a high ish status and have enough money to provide. but otherwise i dont care as long as hes kinda nice to...
yes defo
hard pill to swallow for me, even a really amazing scholar we follow "ibn taymiyyah" didnt marry for he was afraid he could not give his wife her proper rights
nah if im gonna get a man im gonna be traditional and serve him as best as i can, i dont like the whole western crap
and sure...
sikh or hindu, or just nothing
this is referrirng to my grandmas parents, but my parents were definitely extreme (thats why my dad went to prison)
the end was due to my dad getting a second wife without asking for her permission, which is grounds for a divorce. so yeah - extreme islam le bad...
they werent muslim
but also, islam prohibits that. extreme islam is bad i agree, but a man is meant to be the protector of his woman
i just cant trust a man to give me MY islamic rights because modern day muslim men make me wanna kms, its all a power play
also to the last statement, i know you...
my dad went to prison and left my mother with newborn children idk man
my grandma was forced into marriage at 13 and raped to have 5 children before she was 20 (all in london)
ive seen how motherhood affects anyone, and ive seen actual physical abuse in couples (not my parents) and its...
idk if i want a husband, the whole idea is terrifying
id love one but i dont want to be put in a vulnerable situation. also yeah ive tried literally everything theres js smt wrong w me
im making candy lemon peels rn