another maternality vent post yeah yeah yada yada let me yap
so basically I know its normal for people to feel "maternal" when they see a cute dog or cat or like animals no matter who you are thats normal like thats our instinct its to protect the young
but the thing is I feel maternality to almost EVERYTHING and EVERYONE sometimes. its so frustrating because I grew up with a lot of care and I feel like ive adapted to reciprocate them. some people dont like it because they feel its dehumanizing/infantilizing-but i dont use it to dehumanize anybody to make fun of them theyre like "why are you talking to me like a kid wtf thats weird" and I get so embarrassed and im forced to snap out of it. (character limit is probably gonna cut ot off so im gonna vent more latwr)
