Well she is a retard, how would she know that? And besides, it's a retarded question. If I was under the same idea that I was being banned and being asked how justified my ban will be, I'd say it isnt. I'd never surrender. Especially for an admission that she does actually seem to regret, that doesnt break any rules (both adults), and that shows some signs of not wanting to take him all the way through it. He (thankfully) chickened out, and she didnt push him. The ban would seem unjustified and I'd say she had every right to stand up to it. I've dealt with troons before, stonewalling them leads them to worse places so you gotta be willing to hear them out a little before you can try and advise them. Liker wasn't tactful about it, but she didnt push him either. I say, free her.